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Friday, March 5, 2010

Friends: Rajesh Kumar Sinha.

Rajesh Kumar Sinha.
Banda Jitnaa simple... simple utna intro.The first person I have seen at HCU who has unexpectedly become a major importance in my life.
I still remember when did I first see him. He was with a Mustache ON and it was in GB hall. First person in the list on the admission day.
At that moment I never knew that I am probably gonna stay with him in a same hostel, same wing and mostly the same room. He was simple and sober right from the initial days and he still is. That is the best part of Sinha (Sinha ji as venu calls him). I call it destiny and destiny is the only thing which lets you meet people who are away million miles and once you meet them it is worth million lives of bonding. I, rite through the inner layers of my heart cherish the relation with Sinha for the forthcoming lives together. He is too sweet a dude to hang along with.
Sinha and me along with Venu and Noops have spent days and months together on the roads roaming HCU through its Length and Breadth. In the initial days we were in same wing and right from seeing each others faces at the Loo till Good Night wala pissing we used to see each other quite often. Later right from the second semester our bonding grew stronger.I have some words for him which I could not actually speak out because We've never come across such an occasion. But thanks to Blogger; I am very strongly inspired by Sinha. It was not something that he has preached me or taught me but an undercurrent process that had a strong impact on me. If I have transformed myself into a more matured kind of human being 'Yes' Sinha is a part of the change. The way he lives and experiences practicality is the best feature of him. Its rare that you predict what happens exactly to you in the next coming months/years as a result of what are you doing 'NOW'. Sinha has got that 'Khoobiyat'. He usually is a very calm and understanding friend/Son/person who often compromises to make people around him happy. This is one of the lessons I have learnt from him. He always stands for truth and one needs lot of guts to do so. Accept the FACT is the word..... may be you are wrong at times, may be you are supporting the wrong mob -ACCEPT it. Whatever it is: Life, Friend, Grade whatever it is..........
Ok enough of formal positive qualities, let me recollect some lingering memories with him. Sinha initially had a cycle and I had a scooty. I was sick driving beside him on the uphill road so.. I used to hold his right hand with my left hand and ride my scooty thus.. both of us reach hostels at same time at same momentum. I now, wish someone had really taken a pic of such a moment. It looks so Bollywood but that was one of the best moments I have experienced. The very group titled 'Family' has bagged lot of memories just because of his presence. The optimal rectangle seating arrangement( Rajesh and Venu in the front row followed by Me and Noopur for copying in exams) was his architecture. He is the one who saved our asses being burnt many times by the Faculty. Sinha learns all week and explains rest in few hours that we can actually go face the Goddamn minors/Majors and assignments/projects at HCU which are sure nightmares for students. He is yet another Dennis Ritchie - a complete leader of C who has understood and corrected my project in hours of time. Thanks for the B in Programming Methodology dude. I just find a drape of tear in my eyes whenever I remember the day when we dragged a Huge Dried tree for over a kilometer for the mid night campfire at the Open Dais.
There is a very big list of memories we shared together:
  • Chai Dukaan at F Hostel,
  • Mess card hamesha open Phir bhi dinner at GOPS,
  • Shaam ko Honeywell se jaldi aake Chemistry Dept ke paas waala Mirchi khaana,
  • Raat ke 2 baje tak gappe maarke tab sar phir ke Helipad tak gaadiyon pe ghoomnaa,
  • Poore Bheege Bheege barish main Football finals at Gachibowli Stadium,
  • Sukoon ke 3 baje raat maastaan bhai's fuming coffee,
  • Vasundhra (Yet another unfogettable buddy) ko platina chalaate video lenaa....(again at some 2 am),
  • Aadhi raat tak Ladies Hostel yaa Gops ke paas baith ke gaadi pe sonaa
  • Last minute rush for the Coke for Vasundhra at 12 mid night( After she accepted ki woh mere pair padhengi..).
  • Pyaas lage toh gup chup Bhoookh lage toh ganne kaa ras,
  • Holi ke din ka recharge card wala incident and and and...............
  • thousands of memories more. I am sure I can write a book compiling all these memories.

I can never forget the expression in his eyes when I gave him this:
I have some how used my brain(I am not sure whether I have one??) to be a little creative and present him it. It is a collage of lot of photographs of him which I made it into a poster and packed in 9 layers... which included a Pepe jeans cloth on the top most layer. I am glad that he still preserves it with lot of care in his home.
Frankly there is no conclusion for posts like this because relations like this are everlasting and never ending. But to do the formalities I have some words to say to you through this: "Bro, you are absolutely amazing. You have been a real inspiration and support for me. I thank god that I have got people like you and venu are in my life and saaley you pray that you have people like me and aarthi in your life. By the way Guys: I feel so sad to say that Sinha is HAPPILY MARRIED. Yes Happily in bold italics. He has got an amazing life partner :beautiful Aarti with a much beautiful heart. He has got Two Dynamic kind of brothers who will be getting married soon...hehhe.....".


"In the pursuit of my higher academics at Hyderabad Central University I have come across a something like a rock... When I had a keen look at it I found that was a Huge diamond. It is of about 5'7" tall, lean and handsome Bokaro Cut Jharkhand Diamond: Rajesh Kumar Sinha...... Full Respect and loads of love... Please give a Very big Shout and Three cheers to our ultimate,eternal friendship which is travelling towards infinity and beyond..................."


Cheers ,
Srikanth

9 comments:

chandan said...

sir aapka fan or respect to main bhut pehle se hi karta tha per aaj aapka blog padh ke laga....I M RIGHT...salute for ur frndship sir may god bless both of u and me too hehehehe......

Srikanth Chaganti said...

Abey oye.... Kisko bol rahaa hain ye sab.. Mujhe yaa Rajesh ko?????

Rajesh said...

I don’t know what to say and how to respond on this post…

Pure teen saal ka journey kara diya is kamine ne… ek-ek kar sari baatein aaj v aankhon ke samne nayi si lagne lagi…

Apart from this I can still feel the warmth of the day when u gave my b’day gift to me and came with me to my hostel and u cried a lot after that…

And then the last day when u was leaving the campus... at main gate… aaj v sochne bhar se aankhe gili si ho jati hai…

And many more like that…

Ya of course wo raat v jab hum log mid night camp fire ka jugaad kar ke aa rahe the… main ulta baitha tha tere bike mein... us raat ki kuchh aur v baat yaad aati hai...and u know that... we saw someone else also while returning at LH-gate... Did u?? :)

Thanks a lot for giving me such a great Love, Respect & Value

And Thanks for being with me in all my Good times as well as Bad Times. Actually I feel proud to have friend like you in my life. Its like a Life-Time achievement for me.

Srikanth Chaganti said...

@ Rajesh
Stop Being so sweet.
You are an awesome kind of frind Sinha.
Love you loads for not what you are. but what I am when I am with you.

and How can i forget the "Oh My God Expression" at LH.... I actually could not add many things there... Lets restrict the memories to our chats and never ending looong email threads....

Lavkesh said...

wow..........hats off

Rupesh Mishra said...

Sir Jee aap mahan hai......In other words I can say that you are a "MAHRAPURUSH"......So what can anyone say............

Raghul said...

Yep, Srik, I completely accept with what you said about rajesh. Its an immaculate description about him. For those wondering who i am, am his colleague. we were in the same proj during our internship. we were good friends right from the beginning. we became very close, almost share everything. i thought i was the one who is very close to him. but after reading ur post, am afraid to say that i can never fill the place what u created. i can say rajesh as a pearl which never loses its beauty. We look bright when we wear it. when we are with him, we feel the same. we feel bored and lacklusture when he is not around. srik, i can say, you got a lovely friend. hope you two remain good friends for ever. hope that goes same for me too :)

Srikanth Chaganti said...

@raghul: Hey thanks for those lovely words. Every friend to rajesh is unique and has their own importance and respect. He has got that multi tasking capabilities.


Thanks for the visit.. BTW e Wrangle was fun... LOL

Mohua Mazumdar said...

Pretty late a comment but seeing a bond like the one which you guys share even after so many years, it feels so good and so perfect.

And having known you both, and getting to see the bond that you two share, i can truly say that it is a relationship made in heaven, and the bond that you guys share is god-like!!